PURPOSE OF EDUCATION
Thanks to Vijay, after a real long time happened to read something from The Hindu Magazine.
This time it was Kalpana Sharma's What happens to girls?. A nice article, although I feel, I should have read her previous column on women and science.
Honestly speaking, I am a firm believer in the G.B.Shaw principle, an opinion that was formed during my four years of undergraduate education.
Among the many curses in our country is the consideration given to the stupid society. I don't understand why a person can't live unmarried through life, especially, for any parent, one thing that gives prime satisfaction is marriage soon after education, and its really painful to notice that many of the educated youth still believe in this as the most important thing to happen in one's life. Before I continue, I tell you, Iam no misogamist and am waiting for the day to get married, though my interests could change, but, if someone feels his/her future'dn't be as rosy if (s)he gets married, then why on earth 'd ppl not understand that? Why's this ritual so very important to anybody's life? Are all these cowards, who'd let their tongues flap behind my back, more important than my own interests? What have those ppl achieved with their marriage, except for the everyday bickerings and the offsprings whose interests wud soon be curbed? I am in complete agreement with this paragraph from the column, "The reality is that most women want to get on with their lives but cannot. Even women with the highest of qualifications are often hampered. The worst off are those whose hopes are raised with education and skills and then crushed when they realise that the men they are forced to marry or even choose to marry do not share their dreams. " But, it just isn't just girls' goals, and the misconception that men are a whole lot better is definitely untrue, only that a few of them are more gutsy and can choose their own path, like our President and Mr.Vajpayee, but hasn't there been an Avvaiyar? When will we ever do justice to our education? There is no point in being educated, unless the person understands, respects and let's take another individual's path. It becomes incomplete, when an opinion is forced on someone else. Above all, it hampers the growth of the self, the second person and everything around you, when you voice your opinions to everybody except the person you're talking about.